Life is about substraction...and sometimes addition

As title, I would like to eliminate stuffs that are not needed in my life. Stuff that are trivial. Stuff that are even harmful.
What do my life concentrate on?


But sometimes life is enriched with addition. Get a new hobby, Know some new friend, start a fitness program.

So I make a list of things I want to eliminate and add:
To eliminate:

1. stuff: Use them, sell them, give them, throw away them.
2. habits: smell smelly stuff, procrastinate, 
3. 
   

To add:

1. English: Writing (write a lot, imitate other people, use Stylewriter) >Speaking (speak with baby, imitate other people, check pronunciation and accent) >listening ( watch show without subtitles)
2. Good daily routine: sleep/wake up early, eat high protein breakfast, yoga and oriental practice, vitamins.
3. 
   

1. Post-processing is needed! Many LR presets can be downloaded.
2. GF3 is possible to take beautiful pictures. all you need is good composition and post-processing.
3. Many channel in youtube are cool.
4. I need to buy optomec to proceed my building.
5. MVA open at 8.30 am. after that go to police station and go to greenbelt lib after that go to Hwang.
6. talk about babe.
Q:What is the problem?
A: We quarrel. Why? My annoying tone. She felt that I don't like to offer my help. For me, I think that she is too dependent. Why you think she is too dependent? Because I think many simple thing can be solved by her, but still she asked for help. Can you prove the "small" thing is small? I need to read the book!
7. Don't wast time. What is wasting time? When the time is not managed well. You do whatever you scheduled to do.
8. You are unhappy. You quarrel with babe. You still care for her, that's why you are unhappy. You also worried about finance.

First day in lab of 2012

Sleep early today. I should schedule ny time better. Remember that most of the time babe is just want to share her feeling, not really blaming you. Be proactive. I need to take rest if i M sleepy. Especially driving. Focus on what you need to do. And finish it with every means you can think of.

1/7/2011

A new year.
1. keep on the effort of using everything you have. 
2. Need to buy self-defense tools.
3. I need to keep a healthy schedule. Wake up and sleep early.
4. Plan things. such that you can do things you need to and want to do.
5. Life is multifunctional. You need to fulfill many diverse things. So plan ahead such that you save time and concentrate. so that you know why you do this and not worry about other things because you already plan for it.
6. 

new year

writing makes me calm.
Get robbed. Need to stay alert.
It makes me think about fear. Fear is not something you face now, but what you cannot anticipate. 
I like typing on a mac. Word looks beautiful.

review

1. what i don't want to help her?
2. wake up too late. I need to be at lab before 9.00 a.m.
3. If nobody organize the seminar, organize it. If you care, say it out loud. do it.
4. I need to put my effort into writing the paper and more thinking. Your mind cannot be at two place at once. You need to concentrate.
5. No procratination is good.
6. Give thanks and compliment freely.
7. Decide for her. Listen to her need and plan for her. She likes you to decide for her.
8. I will sort out a list of things we would like to do during this holiday season and I will plan it.

i don't feel good in the relationship. I felt i did too much that i don't have myself anymore.